How To Have Kinky Sex With My Boyfriend
So your boyfriend seems to be receptive for walking on the wild side, but you’re not quite sure how best to get your freak on in the bedroom. Or on the kitchen counter. Or on the pool table. Relax, you’re in good hands. Introducing kinky sex into your relationship is easy—you don’t have to outfit the rec room as a BDSM dungeon to get something kinky going. Kink means so many different things to so many different people that adding an element of the outré to your sexual fun really doesn’t require a major adjustment for either of you.
As mentioned, kink’s different for everybody, so find a quiet time to talk to your boyfriend about his fantasies. Let the conversation go where it will. Listen without judging to his most kinky fantasies. Share your own. Your relationship will grow from opening up so completely and you might even get so hot and bothered that you’ll enter the world of kinky sex right then and there courtesy of a feather duster and a few light spankings.
Costumes, unusual accessories, bondage, clothing, food—anything can be an element of kinky sex depending on what the participants are into. When the night has arrived to journey into the magical land of kinky sex, set the mood. Make your fantasies come alive with a kinky outfit—perhaps a leather cat suit or a naughty chambermaid outfit will be the elements that set his kinky desire on fire. Or blindfold him, lay him down on the bed, drizzle honey on his cock, and clean it up with the most erotic methods your fevered imagination can concoct.
Experimentation is all good when getting into kinky sex. If an activity just isn’t turning either of you on, just move right along to your next idea. When you’re both basking in the afterglow, talk about the kinky things that turned you on—and make those part of your repertoire. Kinky sex is all about fun and discovery, and you’re both sure to enjoy the ride.
